本研究旨在瞭解成年男性與心理隔絕父親的關係，成年男性自我認同之經驗，以及與父親心理隔絕對於成年男性建構自我認同的關聯及影響。本研究採質性研究之敘說研究法，透過半結構式的深度訪談，發現成年男性自我認同歷程中，與父親心理隔絕有極為關鍵的影響，而矯正性人際經驗則有助於修補與父親心理隔絕所受到的傷害，使其對自我的認同趨於正向。其具體內涵包括：
一、男孩主動隔絕來自於父子關係的壓力與傷害，形成與父親心理隔絕的生命腳本：三位成年男性於成長時期便主動隔絕來自於父子關係的傷害，令他們的內在充滿自卑、無助與孤獨，對親密關係感到陌生與恐懼，卻又必須壓抑自我情緒而表現出理智的樣貌。
二、從孤立無援的小男孩，成長為剛強理智的成年男人：三位成年男性由於與父親心理隔絕的困境，使得他們無從習得對於男人的認同，因此認定在生命中只能依靠自己，於是，他們封閉自身情感，以剛強的態度面對現實。
三、渴望擁有，卻不斷受挫而難以穩固的親密關係：三位成年男性並不相信自己值得被愛，反覆重演與心理隔絕父親的關係，渴望另一半的愛與關注，但缺乏雙向情感交流的互動，使他們在親密關係中不斷受挫且難以穩固。
四、矯正性的人際經驗修復其內在的創傷，也成為生命的轉捩點：生命不盡然都是挫折，三位成年男性有機會在生活中找到自身的目標與支持的力量，如同生命的轉捩點，逐漸改善三位與父親心理隔絕成年男性自身的認知。
五、逐漸發展正向積極的成年男性自我認同，也是一種和命運的搏鬥：三位成年男性，隨著時代變遷，也因天性對於愛的渴望，再經歷矯正性的人際經驗，讓他們的自我認同趨於正向，持續與與父親心理隔絕的命運搏鬥。
最後，根據研究結果，提供未來研究者對相關議題進一步的參考方向，並且對於心理諮商等助人工作者，提出具體實務工作上的參考與建議。
The main idea of this research is to investigate relationship between adult males with their father who has psychological isolation, experience of ego-identity for adult males, connection or impact of father psychological isolation and ego-identity of adult males. By using substantial study with half-structural interview in this research, we found father psychological isolation has critical impact for adult males to establish their ego-identity. Depends on the correction developing process could help them to overcome the traumatic experience of father psychological isolation and make ego-identity positive. More specific content including:
1.Young boy isolated the pressure and hurt from father-child relationship actively leads to father psychological isolation: Three adult males isolated the hurt from father-child relationship. This behavior makes them inferior, helpless, lonely and afraid of love relationship. In addition to this, they still have to depress the emotion and show their rationality.
2.Young boy without help but still grown up as a man with strong mind: Three adult males don’t know how to learn about the ego-identity of a man due to the father psychological isolation. They believed that they are on their own in their future life, so they hide the emotion and face the real world with firm attitude.
3.Desire to have something but always fail to maintain a love relationship: These three adult males can’t believe they worth to be loved but the shadow of father psychological isolation make them desire more love from their girl friend, they ask more than normal but feel disappointment about the feedback. Bad communications make their love relationship unstable and hard to maintain.
4.Correction developing process helps them to fix the broken heart and make life better: When they have better experience of life, the have chance to find what they truly want with support in the mean time. They also feel better about father psychological isolation gradually.
5.The ego-identity of adult male become positive depends on they fight with their destiny: Even these three adult males consider that they are not worth to be loved, but in the deep still want to have it. With the correction developing process could make their ego-identity positive and keep fighting with the destiny of father psychological isolation.
